Let’s talk about Sex with Stephanie Smith

A Fit Bit for your PENIS - It's a real COCK Changer- with Dr. Elliot Justin

Stephanie Smith

Unlock the secrets to a healthier heart through the bedroom door! Today's podcast lights the way with MyFirmTech CEO Dr. Elliot Justin, guiding us through the surprising ties between sexual health and cardiac wellness. From the bedroom to the gym, we unravel how cutting-edge sex tech like the much-misunderstood cock ring can do more than spice up your love life—it might just save it. We're breaking barriers and debunking myths, revealing how these devices are shifting from taboo to pivotal tools for intimate wellness and strong hearts.

Feel the pulse of innovation as we explore how a simple ring can lead to lasting intimacy and a window into your vascular health. Dr. Justin and I share the transformative power of wearable tech that doesn’t just preserve an erection but fosters deeper connection and prolonged pleasure post-climax. This discreet marvel doubles as a health tracker that could be the nudge men need to lead a healthier life. Think less about performance and more about the profound emotional and physical bonds it can forge—because true intimacy goes beyond the moment.

Dare to reimagine the future of medical practice with our in-depth look at the cutting edge of sexual health technology. MyFirmTech's cloud app isn't just about nocturnal observations; it's a comprehensive tool that can influence lifestyle choices for the better. Stress, travel, or a nightcap too many—learn how they all play a part in your sexual well-being. Plus, with a nod to the unsung heroes of urology and a peek at the innovations on the horizon for women's sexual health, this episode is a testament to the power of open dialogue and the relentless pursuit of holistic health. Join us for a conversation that promises to challenge conventions and inspire action for a more fulfilled, healthier life.

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12/30/23

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Speaker 1:

Have you ever considered how your sexual health could be linked to your overall cardiac health? What about? Have you ever thought about tracking your physiological responses during intimate moments? Have you ever looked at ways to improve your sexual performance through technology? Or maybe you've just been curious about how advancements in sex tech could revolutionize your personal wellness journey? Joining me today, dr Elliot Justin MD, the CEO and founder of MyFirmTech. It's a technology company enhancing male performance and combating ED.

Speaker 1:

Dr Justin is an acclaimed expert in the rapidly evolving sex tech industry, with a unique focus on the intersection of sexual and cardiac health and well-being. His interventions are revolutionizing both intimate experiences and cardiac well-being. With his team of physicians and bioengineers, they embedded sensors into an advanced cock ring or, for those that need a softer landing, an erection ring Worn during sex. The tech ring graphs the duration of erections, firmness and force of ejaculation and, worn overnight, the number of nocturnal erections that indicate vascular health and impact on medication supplements and alcohol. The Tech Ring has an easy-to-use and informative cloud-based application that securely records, stores and transmits data which can be shared in the privacy with your doctor, you can do it with your partner or you just keep it for your own personal ego.

Speaker 1:

Sexual performance can now be objectively quantified, even gamified. The tech ring is like an at-home EKG that tracks the vital signs of a man's most vital organ. No appointments or prescriptions are necessary. It is also the world's first, most comfortable and firming penis rings. Men can now get harder, think smarter about their sexual health and performance. This is truly revolutionary. Please welcome Dr Elliot Justin.

Speaker 2:

Thanks, it's great to be here. My mother gave me two first names and two last names, so it's Elliot. Justin, you can call me.

Speaker 1:

Thank you for joining me today. I'm a little nervous myself, but I am just loving this. So today's topic is cock rings for all is what I would like to say. Cock rings for all. And I want you to say I love the whole thing. I didn't know this when I heard you on the Dr Kelly show that men, straight men, think that cock rings are only for gay men.

Speaker 2:

Yeah well, it's a sign of male obtuseness and pride. So 90% of gay men who are sexually active use cock rings regularly, and only 10% of straight men do, and I think there's several reasons for it. Obviously, gay men'm more open to cock rings, and also there's the reality that anal penetration is harder than vaginal penetration, and a ring can help keep these guys stiff enough for what they want to do. But that said, you know we have a joke at medical conventions which I've said before perhaps you've heard before, but it's pert pertinent to what you just said which is how do you tell the difference between a straight doctor and a gay doctor? It probably applies to straight men and gay men, which is you ask one question Do you use a cock ring? And the straight doctor's reaction is like Superman, kryptonite, oh, I don't need that. And the gay doctor's reaction is last night it was uncomfortable, it's got a better one. So the problem is there's.

Speaker 2:

So, in addition to this sort of notion that men need to be natural and virile and there's something using AIDS is an issue of kind of offends their pride there's also the fact that cock rings suck. They're uncomfortable, they're made for 150 years the same, frankly stupid way. It's a hard, sore cone ring. It's like a gasket or a noose on your dick and you have to have an erection before you put it on because it's a chokehold. It'll choke off the arterial flow and, frankly, a lot of men who actually would really benefit from rings men with decreased blood flow or men with anxiety syndrome performance anxiety, which is common they have struggled to get an erection. So you're challenging them. First I have to get an erection, then I got to put this thing on. So in my lifetime I'm quite a bit older than you, stephanie, I'm 71 years old. Vibrators have become mainstream. My mother's vibrator was stashed away in the bottom drawer of a supply closet that we found. That she said was for a back massage. I don't know what she said.

Speaker 1:

I love it, I do.

Speaker 2:

And then in the 70s and 80s, when I was actively dating, before I got married, women used them but there was a certain shame about them. We're still back in the clear-up-of-the-vaginal-orgasm phase and we're still calling women who can't orgasm back then frigid or anorgasmic, and there was sort of an embarrassment to women to using vibrators. And now they're mainstreamed. You know my wife, who you met earlier. I don't know how many she has and like a lot of women who use vibrators probably you too she likes to use more than one while we're making love because at different phases of her, of her passion, uh, she wants to have a rumble, she wants that buzz, she wants this shape, she wants to have that shape. And you know our daughter takes them on dates and as as as to her friends and they've even turned into a form of jewelry. You probably seen the crave, the crave vibrator, by the way I don't like endorsing brands.

Speaker 2:

My wife really likes that one, so which one do you like?

Speaker 1:

the crave okay, cool, cool, cool can I just ask you to please answer the question about that, because a lot of men don't like women using that, because they feel inferior to the vibrator do they really?

Speaker 2:

is that really the case?

Speaker 1:

I mean, I thought that is right here, um not you see, this is the thing, because you're such an out-of-the-box thinker, which I love, and that's why we're rule breakers and not rule makers. But the thing is is that this is what women tell me that my husband won't let me bring a vibrator into the home, so I know you have it freely. There Is not how you hear about it from men.

Speaker 2:

I don't hear about that from men anymore, and I did. I did back in the 90s. I don't hear that anymore, thank you. I think the attitude, that attitude has changed and I don't want to generalize about that, but that's really my impression. I wonder sometimes whether the women aren't using that as an excuse when I hear it, because I'll put it this way the women aren't using that as an excuse when I hear it. You're right, I'll put it this way.

Speaker 2:

I want to talk about technology a little bit, but if a woman introduces a sex toy into a relationship, it's far more likely not to get used. If a man introduces a sex toy, if a man brings a vibrator, that's totally different. If a man introduces a sex toy, it might get used once or twice and then it ends up under the bed or in the night table or in the garbage or hidden away. I think the men are much more focused on if she's happy, I'll be happy. I don't think that's the case. I know that there are other, but I don't think that's the case anymore.

Speaker 2:

I do think that when it comes to cock rings, our data shows that all men use cock rings and so we have internal data and we looked at something that's never been studied before, which is D2 messes. So D2 messes is the time it takes to get an erection. Well, there are lots of variables. It's really hard to study with that. Hey, is it alone? Is it with a partner? Are you watching porn? Are you drunk, are you smoking pot? What medications do you take? What disease? A lot of variables that affect tumescence, d2mescence, with nothing else involved. That's more objective. That's the time it takes for an erection to go down. So we studied 21 men. Now, granted, they're all here in Montana, where I live, but I suspect we can generalize in this data.

Speaker 1:

I love it. Data's data, honey. Some of this data let's just be real Some of our data that we get from pharma and from medical devices. They only have five participants, so you having 21 is beautiful.

Speaker 2:

Well, if you go back to the original PD-5 data, the Viagra data, it's marginally better than placebo. But so and I have, I have meant I'm drifting away by 30 seconds I have mentioned my prescribed to Dalafil Cialis and they tell me that it works for them, even if it's just in their wallet or in their night table. So we're talking about something that has a profound placebo effect. So raw data. When it comes to D2MS, the time it takes to lose an erection, a man will lose, and the men range in age from 27 to 70. I was the oldest person to study and the average erection went down. This is off the top of my head, I don't recall the exact numbers about 35 seconds from climax to Caudill on the penetrate. With Tadalafil, it was a little bit over two minutes. With our ring the maximum performance ring it was over four minutes. And with both together Tadalafil plus performance ring it was over four minutes. And with both together the Delpho plus the ring it was over five minutes. So the message really is men, if you want to have a harder, longer-lasting erection, put a ring on it, get over your wishes, and our ring was specifically designed for comfort. Now, if you want, the ultimate would be a ring plus a medication, but the ring is more effective. And doctors, of course they don't know about rings, they're not oriented to rings.

Speaker 2:

Doctors write prescriptions, they order tests. They want you to come back, they want to do an intervention. So the current right now if a man has rectal dysfunction sees a urologist, they'll wave a Doppler over his dick in the office. Now, what is that telling you? Men want to know what's going on when they're trying to have sex. If I go into a doctor's office and I get a nurse that has cold hands, could be male or female, puts her hands on my penis with cold lube and then takes an ultrasound probe which is cold and puts it on my penis, we're not coming anywhere close to what's going on when that man is trying to have sex, sexual relations. So now we've done a Doppler study, this man, because you get paid to do a Doppler, and you've ordered a panel of hormone tests. And let's suppose the hormone tests are normal, what's the next thing the doctor would do? Get a pill. We're going to prescribe agro sedans, one of the medications.

Speaker 2:

Well, those medications are really. They do put blood into the penis. I think the large effect is placebo, they do put blood into the penis. Is that the man's problem, though? Because there are two problems that men have, and the urologists group these two problems together dumbly. One is I can't attain an erection. If a man can't attain an erection, he's got a serious problem, that that man has diabetes medication issues. Uh, this isn't relation. This is probably not a relationship problem. The most common problem for men is they. They start to get an erection, or they get an erection and they lose it, and they can lose it for anything from performance, anxiety, distraction, medications, diseases, alcohol, drugs. So at FirmTech, those men, if you can get an erection, do you really need a PD-5 medication? That PD-5 puts blood in, but you're already putting blood in. Maybe put a little more blood, so maybe the medication puts a little more blood in. If you're older, you have diabetes, hypertension, but your issue is sustaining an erection, so a ring helps you sustain an erection.

Speaker 2:

Rings I'll talk personally. Rings have changed my marriage. I'm married this is my 36th year. I never use cock rings regularly. We are into sex like you, but my wife would maybe buy me a cock ring once a year, twice a year, kind of like a novelty, and we use it once and we didn't like it because they're uncomfortable and she didn't like them either, because they kind of come between us. And then there's this sort of you know, there's this cringe moment after a man comes, you want this thing off right away.

Speaker 2:

The great thing, getting back to the data I gave you before, if I'm going to stay hard four or five minutes after I've had an orgasm, that's one way in which this ring has changed our lives in terms of the quality of our intimacy, because the male mindset is come and done. Men have an erection. You can probably stab them in the back while they're fucking and they just probably keep fucking until they bled out. But once they come, they're done and it's like, hey well, who texted me while we're having sex? Or let's have a drink, or let's go to bed, what's next? A man with a sustained direction afterwards, comfortable, one different mindset. Next go. So at our age, it's not like I have to keep on thrusting for my wife to come again, but my mindset is totally different and we both comment on this. We spend more time horizontal after making love, talking, intimate, rubbing, intimately engaged, and that's really. That was profound.

Speaker 2:

So the challenge you're going back to the beginning with firm tech. I didn't set out to make a bed of cock ring. I didn't. That was secondary. I really set out to get data. So I was challenged by a urologist, dr Jim Hotali he's now my chief medical officer at the University of Utah to come up with a way of counting the number of noxious colorectal in men while they're sleeping. I mean, everyone knows about morning wood and we poke our partner with it and we laugh about it and we worry about it if we don't have it. But I have no idea that is a leading indicator of cardiovascular health or medication side of that. So, stephanie, your medicine leading indicator that's a profound thing to say. When he told me that, I thought, wow, this is a sixth vital sign.

Speaker 2:

This is really important because association is already a motivator in medicine. So high blood pressure is associated with heart attack and stroke. It doesn't. It's not a leading indicator, unless it's really high, in which case it's a hypertensive emergency, but that's extreme. It's an association, and because it's an association we take pills, we watch our diet, we watch our weight, all these other things. Because it's an association. But now we're talking about a leading indicator. No-transcript. So you and I live in this age of healthcare wearables and there's this big gap with the sex. And what do men care more about? How many steps it took yesterday, when the game happened or where the dick works Exactly?

Speaker 1:

How their cock works.

Speaker 2:

How their cock works Exactly. So this could be a profound motivator, not just for better sexual health, but for better cardiovascular health, better health overall, and we know that. My hope, of course, is that people will develop positive relationship with our tech ring Because, you know I just give an example it's kind of typical. You know, my wife has a digital scale. She watches her weight. I don't need to watch my weight, but I step on that scale every day because it's there and I like the data feedback. Yes, watch my weight, but I step on that scale every day, because it's there and I like the data feedback.

Speaker 2:

Oh, I'm good, you know, with our ring it's it's, and I'm going to turn on my phone so I can show you the app. With our ring it's the same way we have I. My data is a motivator, so I personally just have used the ring a couple of times to change.

Speaker 1:

So the data from the ring goes right to an application.

Speaker 2:

It goes to the cloud and it's on Bluetooth enabled. So when the ring? Have you seen the ring?

Speaker 1:

I saw a picture only on the videos.

Speaker 2:

We should get to one to play around with.

Speaker 1:

I would love it.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, that's the ring. So there's a pressure sensor there, a strange gauge there. We'll be adding other sensors next year and you drop, it goes on differently. You know one thing it's not made out of hard silicone, it's made out of software. Yeah, I love that.

Speaker 2:

It looks nice. Okay, it opens and closes for safety with a feature adopted from the bra. So instead of being a ring, it opens and closes for safety with a feature adopted from the bra. So instead of being a ring, it opens and closes with a hook. So I'm a lean guy, I can look down and I can see my penis. But most guys they look down and see belly and these rings can be hard to put on. Our ring does not block the arterial flow of the penis. It just constrains the penis return and that means it can be put on discreetly. It doesn't have to be oh, I've got an erection. Where's my ring? Now we can have sex. So it can be put on hours before sex. It can be worn for hours. So it does two things. One, it gives people vital data. Here I'll show you what it looks like. We're in the Apple and Google stores. That's our logo over there Firm Tech.

Speaker 1:

Oh, I love it.

Speaker 2:

We.

Speaker 1:

I will show that as a post.

Speaker 2:

Yep, here I'll show you what it looks like. Yeah, I'll show you. This is my data. Okay, tell us what it means A score above 6.5 is good. I'm averaging 3.3 nocturnal erections per night. If you have sex before you go to bed which I try to have sex before I go to bed every night, I don't know why anyone wouldn't the it will go down.

Speaker 1:

I'm a morning person. I like both, but I do like morning.

Speaker 2:

Well, it helps with sleep.

Speaker 1:

That's right, it does Okay.

Speaker 2:

So, although so, Okay, good. So what we've noticed in our data is that having sex, well, it really depends on how long you have sex. But having sex for 20, 30 minutes before you go to bed, I kind of regard that as a quickie. But having sex before you go to bed is reducing the number of nocturnal erections. So I average three per night. If I don't have sex before I go to bed, I'll have five to six nocturnal eruptions.

Speaker 2:

So for me, I'll show you what the day looks like. It's so beautiful, okay. So here here, this is the aunt and I having sex, here, my wife and I having sex, and you're seeing this. We call this the love notch. Why? Because in most committed relationships the woman comes first, that's her peak, and then I get some attention paid to me and then I come over there. So a little lag period in between and then I'm having you know, these are nocturnal erections Bang, bang, bang bang.

Speaker 2:

So for me this is more fun than my electric cardiogram. This means I'm in good cardiovascular health and good sexual health. I love that and I could measure the impact of, if I want to, of alcohol, marijuana, medications, you know upon my sleep. So what I've noticed is, if I'm under a lot of stress, my nocturnals go down and it makes me pay attention to what's stressing me. What can I do to relieve the stress? Or if I travel internationally, I'll take Zolpidem Ambien for sleep. It kills my nocturnals. I mean people who take that regularly are actually negatively impacting their sexual health and probably their cardiovascular health as well too.

Speaker 2:

And I can, even with this device, see when this is a point for men and for women. When you're drinking you get really turned on but you can't climax. I can actually nail it. Our daughter wants us to come up with that and we will eventually do this. It's just a question of time and money. Come up with that. I love it. Like, for example, steph, if you and I are involved, you could actually get you know and you saw me drinking. You could actually count my drinks and send us both alerts to our smartwatches or device or phone saying hey, elliot, if you want to have sex tonight, you're at your limit.

Speaker 1:

Imagine how good that would be for a couple, because he's got to go right, he wants it to happen, and she's like the way he's drinking it's not going to happen. And he's like, oh, yes, it is, and so then they can just have an application that will settle so many fights.

Speaker 2:

By the way, that goes both ways for men watching their walk there.

Speaker 1:

They're wondering yeah, I love that. Yes, it does, it goes both ways.

Speaker 2:

Yes, thank you so the data is really valuable, but the ring but in order to but the ring itself. I didn't understand. I didn't understand the value of rings. I don't accept that one now. So I don't really need a ring, I want a ring. So when men tell me doctors, straight doctors or just straight men, I don't need it, my response is do you want a better orgasm? Do you want to last longer? Do you want to be harder? Do you want your partner to be? Do you want it to be easier to satisfy a partner? Do you want your partner to be more excited because you're more satisfied? And these and ask all those questions is, of course, yes. So I, you know, I hope I've you know, really going on speaking to people like you, promoting this that, yeah, the technology is really valuable. The tech, not the data, can be health changing potentially life-saving but yes, put a ring on it uh I love it.

Speaker 1:

Put a ring on it um here's.

Speaker 1:

Here's the thing. Um, okay, why you said you mentioned this thing about going, and I don't know how a guy goes into a urologist and gets tested and the whole one thing and all blah, blah, blah. Why are we not handing them a ring, sending them out of the office with that ring, asking them to get that data? Come back with that data to the urologist and the cardiologist, because they both could be getting down deeper to exactly the issues of the patient, which is where we need to get down to.

Speaker 2:

Well, it starts with the fact that people are still inhibited about talking about sex, doctors especially. So I've never, even though in medical medical school we learn how to take a sexual history. Uh, we didn't.

Speaker 2:

We never do it afterwards because that's it and I think the reason is there's no money in it. Because right now, let's talk health record we have. We are reminded what to or what to sit, what to ask, what to order, and sex is not part of it. I've never I'm 71 years old I've never had a doctor ask me about my sexual health. I've never had a doctor ask me about my marriage or my partnerships, my relationships. It's incredible, because what's most important to people aside from money, what's most important to people is their love life, and doctors don't ask about it. I mean important to their mental health and even their overall health. So doctors ask about their insurance status. They don't ask about your sexual health. So the problem starts there. And then the next part of the problem is the doctors are, overall, relatively straight. They might be politically we know they're politically liberal but they're sexually conservative, so they're inhibited.

Speaker 1:

They don't want to ask.

Speaker 2:

They're embarrassed to ask People and then there's a lot of research. So the way our approach to this is one song on our podcast is there are now four papers accepted for publication. There will be another four papers this year, maybe six. So people are going to start to. Doctors, urologists and sexologists are going to learn about our device. If I had money for a media buy I would, but I don't have that kind of money. But I do have the money to get research.

Speaker 1:

We're going to work on getting you money, because all we're going to do is keep on talking about it, because this is really. I mean. I keep on talking about health and sex because my tagline is helping you create a healthy, satisfying sex life, and you cannot have good sex unless you're healthy. Okay, let's be clear. It's not fun If you're, if you're not healthy or feeling good, you're not going to have great sex. So, to me, we're going to, we have to continue to talk about it and, um, that's why I'm doing my podcast and bringing on people like yourself, because this can be life changing.

Speaker 1:

Here's some things because I definitely want to know. I already know about 10 people that want to buy it. So I already know, I already know, you know. So when I give gifts like you were talking about your daughter, about how she always, you know, takes her vibrator I give gifts, birthday gifts you get a vibrator or some kind of. I believe in actually, I believe in anal massages for the prostate, because 40% of men have prostate cancer and if we massage that prostate, it's good. So maybe we'll talk about that another time, or you can develop.

Speaker 2:

But frequency is not important to men. Women too, by the way. Yes so if a man has sex regularly man over 50 has sex regularly his cortisol levels are half. I mean regularly, I mean every day. If a man has sex every day for two weeks, his cortisol levels are down 50%. Men over the age of 75 who have sex two or three times a week decrease their cardiovascular risk between 25% and 50%. It doesn't mean they're not going to die, but these things are published research.

Speaker 1:

I have an eight-year-old still having sex here, honey, that's what I'm talking about. Here's the thing we are going to live longer. We are not going to live till you know. We're going to live much longer and we want to have vitality. And the only way to have vitality is to have good sex and to eat good and take care of ourselves. So this is the key here. We can start then measuring your device. We can start measuring. People will start looking at their cock, because that's really what's important to them, and they'll be able to see the data to do something. See, being fat sitting on a couch. They're not going to do anything, but if they can see that their cock isn't working or it's going downhill, they're going to get up and do something. That is how I think men think. Am I right, or?

Speaker 2:

wrong. I think you're right, but I think a lot of people also. They give up, they get bored. There's several things people don't like to talk about in relationships, and one of them is boredom. Well, the way to deal with boredom. I'll give a couple personal examples, but in general, when I talk to other couples, what I hear is you got to stop making love regularly years ago because you made it boring or you made it difficult. Well, we're under stress, we got kids, we're at work, blah blah, and then people lose confidence and it's so easy to rationalize not making love. I think people need to plan for pleasure, and if people find themselves spending more time in the gym a lot more time in the gym than they are making love, they're showing two things. One, if you can get on a Peloton for 45 minutes, you can't make love for 15 minutes. Seriously, I mean I would.

Speaker 1:

I don't.

Speaker 2:

So people need to invest in pleasure in their relationship. Stephanie, I'm a. Really. If you ever come to Bozeman Montana, my wife and I joke that our house is the best restaurant If you're going to come here and visit. I wouldn't, I wouldn't like open the refrigerator and say, oh, stephanie's coming in a few minutes. What's here? Oh, I got some rotisserie chicken. Let's heat it up and I'll throw some sauce on it. No, I would plan a meal. People like to rationalize that oh well, great sex is spontaneous. Yeah, spontaneous sex is great, but it's hard to have spontaneous sex as you get older. That's the reality People want to talk about the dangers of porn?

Speaker 2:

How about the dangers of HBO Game of Thrones? Sex is kind of fun to watch, but that's not the reality. I don't throw my wife up against the wall and bang her hard and we both cum. She doesn't push me down the bed, tear my clothing off and we both climax together. That's not reality. That's not reality. So what do you need to do in order to have better sex? You need to plan. There are toys, there's role-playing, there's so much fun that people can have if they will take the time, if they will overcome their inhibitions. Talk about it and plan. Thank you.

Speaker 1:

Thank plan, thank you, thank you, thank you, and it's kind of cool to see you, as a male, have your inhibitions really. You know, be open to exploring so much with your wife, and I love that, because so many men don't know how to and many women do not. And I don't know how to teach women. I have a friend that teaches women. I'm more on the man side. That's the reason why I really loved your stuff, because I love teaching men about how to take better care of their cock. But also, too, they like to just think that they should explode and just have fun, and I'm like, no, sometimes you need to hold that power, hold it and just create some fun stuff.

Speaker 2:

The lead up that's where the ring is great, and so I'm talking about myself right now, but I'm talking about patients, looking at the customers, a lot of customers.

Speaker 2:

What I'm about to tell you, which is that the ring is a profound confidence builder for both the man and the woman, or it could be a man and a man, but the ring is a and I'll get to man and men in a moment, because I had some interesting stories there but the ring is a great confidence builder. You know, prior to my wife using cock rings regularly, there were certain positions that had become boring, at least boring for me. Boring for me because of repetition. Boring for me because I didn't get the friction that I needed, because I'm older and also we've done this so many times and my wife has had three kids. So things like the missionary position or having sex from behind, yeah, I do them, but in my mind I'd be thinking I'm going to lose my erection in a few minutes. Why are you making me do this? Because I'm not turned on enough. But with the ring, my mindset is different. I'm now a guy with an erection, and the guy with an erection thinks differently.

Speaker 2:

The guy with an erection thinks yeah, I might not want to come in this position, but you're enjoying it. I'm hard, I'm still turned on. You want to do this 10, 15 minutes, I'm fine with it.

Speaker 1:

And that's been a life-changing thing for Annie and.

Speaker 2:

I, I really like that. Yeah, go ahead. Women have a problem that men complain about to each other, which is and men most of their luck discusses with their wives, but the wives are aware when they do it anyway. Girlfriends, in the middle of passionate sex, some of us start talking about something else. So it could be something that happened at work, or it could be something that happened at work, or it could be something that happened with a friend, or something that happened with their mother or whatever it is.

Speaker 2:

And men think, especially older men, not 25-year-old guys, but 50-year-old guys, 60-year-olds, 71-year-old guys what the fuck? You can't hold off that thought for five minutes. We're both about to have an orgasm. Now I got to hear about your mother. Or you just figured out a great idea to redesign a bedroom. I don't want to hear about it right now.

Speaker 2:

So with the ring on, I don't care anymore. With the ring on, I don't go ahead, because you can talk about that for five minutes and I'm still going to have an erection. So it doesn't make a difference. And I both laugh about that change because it's so she. So the ring was also.

Speaker 2:

With the ring there's no longer because we're both older people. Okay, we're both turned on. Now she wants to get out of the library. We're going to fuck, we're going to, we're going to try to come in five to 10 minutes, because we're all turned on with the ring. Now we make love for 30, and it's because and she's, I would say her she has more orgasms and I enjoy it more too. I don't really want to having an orgasm for me in five minutes. That's like having an hors d'oeuvre or a cocktail. I'm not really interested. I want to be edged, I want to have multiple. She wants it as well too. It's really changed the experience and I hear about that from men who use our rings and their partners, whether they have ED or whether they don't have ED. The ring is a confidence builder for both people in their relationship.

Speaker 1:

Talk about this literal one, because you said that you get the data from both. So tell us how that whole works in our head, how it gets onto the computer.

Speaker 2:

We have a device for women. We've tested on 38 women. We have I'll test.

Speaker 2:

Well, you don't want to test the next version because the sensors that we originally tested there are two papers about this We've come up with. We've learned about sensors, more sensors, better sensors, Some ones that are more sensitive and specific than the ones that we're currently using. I'm not going to tell you what they are because it's proprietary, but that device really is just a question of money and we need about on the engineering side. I need about half a million dollars to complete that and take it to market. Come look up a thousand dollars for research and the rest of it for marketing. So I will come out with that device in 2025, regardless, but I can make it happen faster if I had money.

Speaker 1:

I'm going to help you.

Speaker 2:

So we're measuring clitoral health. So there's a vibrator called a lioness which will tell you what's going on inside your vagina. It will measure pubic procedures, muscle contractions, vaginal wall movements, just during sex, but it can't be used in penetrative sex. I'm interested in the health of the clitoris, just the way I was interested in the health of the clitoris, just the way I was interested in the health of the penis. I wonder about the health of the clitoris. It's easy we do have a sensor inside the vagina with our device that can give us the same data that the lioness gives. But I want to know what's going on with the clitoris so that women can then measure the impact of diseases and medications, et cetera, upon their sexual health.

Speaker 2:

So postmenopausal women have all the same problems. Before menopause, female hormones give women some protection not total protection against atherosclerosis. Postmenopausal women have all the same problems that men do and actually it's all pretty much equal now because women unfortunately become too many and overweight. Diabetes, hypertension, obesity, these are really these are central health cardiovascular problems. Premenopausal women take more medications than men do. Premenopausal women often take hormones for birth control and they take SSRI antidepressants, which are click killers. And if women had a device such as what I'm discussing. They could then titrate the dosage. They could see the impact. It'll transform what women are doing to themselves and what doctors are doing to them. To have data. Because you have data if you can.

Speaker 1:

As the cliche goes, if you can track it, you can yeah, yeah, yeah, and I love that because actually I got off all of my medications last year. I did all this stuff like you're. What you're talking about is stuff that I did as a female because it wasn't working for me anymore the SSRIs and all that stuff blood pressure medication.

Speaker 2:

The SSRIs are a terrible class of medicine, horrible.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, and so I went on that whole journey with using Dr Sarno's like thought process of like, bringing blood flow. My mom actually has dementia and so that's kind of why I started getting into this. She's young and but not moving, and she's my dad's like 80, running circles around her so and he's ready to have sex, so I've got to help him. I'm that person and so, um, so I kind of came up with his philosophy of like, oh, bringing blood flow and throughout the body and getting people moving right Blood flow and my sex was, I mean, I, I take care of myself, I'm a single person by choice and I have FWBs, you know fine, but I will say that since getting off of all that medication, blood pressure, reducing the weight, doing all of that, eating better my orgasms are better. So you are 100% right, but I would have loved to have tracked that stuff. That would have been super fun to track, right.

Speaker 2:

It would have loved to have tracked that stuff. That would have been super fun to track right, it would have been motivating and it would have given you valuable data like okay, I'm doing this intervention, is it working? Because right now, you know and I'll say that I'm a doctor, a conventional doctor but there's very little reason for people to trust doctors, especially after COVID, when so many doctors went along with lies like natural immunity doesn't work anymore. So, as a consequence, people are turning more and more to naturopaths, homeopaths, other alternative health care, whatever we want, integrative medicine, et cetera. What people don't realize is those people, those other doctors, are just as motivated by money and often deluded by it's a strong word. They're believers, they believe that alternatives are working, but is it objective? They're believers, they believe that alternatives are working, but is it objective?

Speaker 2:

So in the area of men's health, there are, you know, a man with ED or a man who wants to stay virile. They'll walk on broken glass for a solution. So all these things being I men as potentially being beneficial and I think some of them are and I know some of them aren't and they range from shock therapy, which I think can help a lot of men, but it's being sold as a solution to pretty much everyone and I think it's really going to be beneficial for men with mild to moderate vasculogenic erectile dysfunction, diabetes, hypertension. It's not going to help guys there are problems, men with ED. It's not going to help, but the guys will pay money for it anyway. The plasma shot Well, I think the data is equivocal. Then there's stem cells. I kind of can see how that might work, but how about proving it? These are expensive interventions.

Speaker 2:

Then there's all the natures oedicals. The natures oedical market for men and women is multi-billion. We haven't even found a single because we tested a lot of oral products for men. I'm not going to condemn any brands. Using a lot of technology, you can test them. You can take all sorts of supplements with our device and say well, is that making my dick any harder? I'm having more nocturnal erections If I'm taking testosterone therapy. I think there are men who have benefits and men who doesn't. With technology, you can prove it, you can see it. It's the same thing with women will have the same benefit for the female device as well too. So what we're doing is revolutionary in terms of urology and sexuality.

Speaker 2:

If I went to, or you went to, a cardiologist right now and said gee, you know, I walked down the driveway. I feel a short breath, I haven't felt that way before. And that doctor just listened with a step through our chest and said you know, stephanie, your tic is sounds okay, your pulse feels good, go ahead, you're okay. You would think what the fuck? It's 1880. I want a CT calcium angiogram. I want blood tests. I want an electrocardiogram. That's where urology and sexology are and gynecology are for sexual health. They can wave an ultrasound over the penis of the clitoris in their office, but they can't really tell you what you want to know, which is what is really going on. If I take this pill, am I getting better? If I take this shot, am I getting better? If I do this exercise regimen, am I getting better? So what we're talking about is revolutionary.

Speaker 1:

Revolutionary. Am I getting better? So what we're talking about is revolutionary and that's why it will take time, because you're doing something against what everything in everyone's brain. You're doing something completely that no one's done and they can't see that there's benefits, but there's a lot of benefits. I think that we, I want to work with you because I think we can do. I know you have some GoFundMe things, but I, as you're talking, my brain's like Dr Kelly. You know her brain's going, my brain's going, like you know. She may have the patience and that's great, but I think that there's a way that we can get this to, to way that we can get this to um, to.

Speaker 1:

I have some different ideas and but my here's some things um, where can I? I'm going to put it on my uh, my link in my bio. I'm going to have your website for people to go and buy Um. I'm going to post all your articles all over my Reddit. So that's where I post all my articles, so that if anyone wants to look for your articles so quickly or whatever, because I don't know what platforms you're on, but I like to hit people in about 10 different platforms, so this will go on about 10 different. Actually, this will go on 13 different platforms, so I'm set up to do that right now. Okay, so exactly how much money between the female and the male that we need. So if anyone's listening to our podcast and wants to be able to invest, what is it?

Speaker 2:

1.6 million is what we need for the female device. The male device just needs some marketing, needs some money for a media buy, probably $300,000, maybe $2 million total some marketing needs some money for a media buy, probably $300,000, maybe $2 million total.

Speaker 2:

Okay, and just let's tell everyone how much is the device for the male right now? Sure, it's just a retail price of $275 for the tech ring and $60 for our best-selling product, which we call the maximum performance ring. It's a maximum performance ring. It does not have any technology in it, but it was designed to increase the ejaculatory phase by 50%. So the longer the ejaculation lasts in a man, the more powerful the orgasm is. And we use that my wife and I use that pretty much every day.

Speaker 1:

So you want both of them, Bottom line.

Speaker 2:

You want both, yeah we're selling them as a bundle on the website. I mean the matching is so good that my wife says she's glad the kids are out of the house, because I'm so loud and I know it's not.

Speaker 1:

Tell me one more story, because I know you want me to end. I want to keep on task, but just tell me one other good story that you want to share with the audience.

Speaker 2:

So our oldest client that I'm aware of is 82 years old. His wife is 64. He contacted me because he was unable to have an orgasm for about 15 months and would notice that his erections were getting harder. For him to get erection hard enough for penetration, he was taking five medications, all of which could have an impact on his sexual performance. I told him we warned everyone hey, don't make any changes without consulting a doctor, but I know they do it anyway. I suggested to him that he probably only needs two of those five medications and that for one of those two medications there was an equivalent that did not have an impact upon his sexual health. And about six weeks later he and his wife sent me an email saying they're having sex two or three times a week, he can have an orgasm again and they're really happy.

Speaker 1:

Ah, love it, I love it. That's a great story. Okay, we're going to end there. I'm going to stop, but stay right there because I want to talk to you for one second, so I'm going to stop out there in the world and sharing that with you. Isn't it mind-blowing that you can measure the number of nocturnal erections and that could potentially indicate a vascular health issue or an impact that's a medication you're taking, a supplement, or how alcohol is affecting your penis. It's crazy. It's crazy. All right, man, go out and get yourself one. Just get yourself one. Okay, you don't need to wait for your wife. This is not impacting her. This is for you to know about your physical health, your sexual health and how your erections are doing. It will give you peace of mind.

Speaker 1:

We're going to have Dr J back on for some more lives, q and AAs. He's super excited. I am too. This is truly a mind-blowing, revolutionary cock ring and, like I say, it's a cock changer and everyone just needs to get one.

Speaker 1:

I have a promo code from Dr J in the links in my bio. His product's at the first of my page. Um, his products at the first of my page. The promo code's there for your convenience. It's 10 off. Go out there, get your cock ring and start measuring what's going on with your physical health and you. We can measure by your number of erections. And the cool thing is that he's doing a female component for the clitoris, so we're going to be able to start doing that females. So I'm super excited about all of this stuff that's coming out in the world and being able to bring it to you. Please stay tuned because guess what? We're going to start doing our lives over at Schizo Kitty in Palm Desert starting Tuesday, april the 2nd so excited that Dave the owner over there is working with let's Talk About Sex with me Stephanie Smith, and helping us get out there and start getting people more comfortable about talking about sex.

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